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When Sex Becomes Boring For Him

June 12, 2009


lossintrestsexAll right, you’ve had some steamy hot sex with your boyfriend for quite a while, but then slowly you begin to realize that he’s not too excited at the thought of having sex with you.

You go wondering what’s wrong, maybe he has found someone else, or maybe he’s no more interested in you for whatever reason. In most cases, the dip in passion isn’t because your boyfriend doesn’t like you, but it is because he’s bored with the same old sexy moves that you’ve been making, ever since the two of you met.

Women generally believe that a man won’t go complaining as long as he’s getting something from her. However, men are as human as you are, so it’s quite likely that they may get bored following the same routine every time. Rather, men love change a lot, and those soft kisses, overly stretched foreplays and slow stripping off may soon become unexciting for them.

So, now you know why he’s trying to distance out or where that passion has gone missing. Take a breather and read through to find out what some of the things that men find boring in bed.

The same position

Every time you want to have sex, you just can’t have it in the very same position. You need to be a bit adventurous and let your guy try some new sex positions for a change. In certain positions, a man gets more pleasure than the woman, so there’s no harm in letting him have a bit more pleasure once in a way.

It’s no strip tease

Stripping off your clothes slowly is fine when it’s a new relationship and when you need to explore each other’s bodies. But when you’ve been long together, and he has seen your naked body many a times, removing clothes slowly doesn’t seem quite exciting to him.

Foreplay isn’t needed every time

You love foreplay, but men feel suffocated when they have to give you a long foreplay every time. Let there be days when the two of you get onto sex without the need for him to please you with foreplay. Also, a foreplay that stretches beyond fifteen minutes feels like drudgery to most men.

And after that

Women love a bit of kissing, pampering and talking after having sex, but men on the contrary would rather love to sleep peacefully once they are gratified.

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