Pregnancy is one of the best gifts for a couple which they can cherish forever. Pregnancy is the fruit of the love and intimacy between a couple and this is the most beautiful thing that binds a couple together forever.
Pregnancy also being a time when the expectant mother needs to take best care of her it becomes mandatory that the expectant father showers his love and care to his wife by pampering her and making it easier for her. The expectant mother may face a number of discomforts, mood swings, food cravings and feelings of anxiety for many reasons due to her pregnancy.
Pregnancy triggers a set of hormonal and physical changes in the body and there can also be minor complications. Your wife may begin to feel depressed as she may not be able to enjoy living her life the way she used to do or she may begin to feel that she looks ugly and overweight. Some unfortunate women may go through pregnancy complications for which they may be recommended complete bed rest and this becomes quite tough and depressing in the long run.
It may happen that your wife will become more sensitive during her pregnancy and if you don’t remain prepared to handle her adequately she may begin to feel that you don’t love her the way you used to do. So, it’s much more important that you tell your wife through your many loving actions that you still love her the way you used to do.
Ways To Show Love To Your Pregnant Wife
Learn To Be A Good Husband
If there had been earlier pitfalls when you couldn’t prove to be a good husband then this is the time when you can prove to be one. During the time of your wife’s pregnancy you can try to give her most importance instead of priorities like work, friends and other activities.
Remember whoever might be there with your wife she needs you the most to be with her and assure her of your undying love. You must listen to her concerns, worries and anxieties patiently and make her believe that all will be well. You must be patient and spend as much time possible with your wife.
As pregnancy progresses your wife may feel various discomforts and doing household chores may become cumbersome. This is the time you can be most supportive towards her by being helpful, shouldering most difficult chores and taking care to see that she gets her much needed sleep and rest.
Give Loving Pregnancy Massages and Prepare Special Meals
Your pregnant wife will also go through various body cramps and discomforts. Giving her a pregnancy massage can be most relaxing as she can feel your love and concern for her through your sincere efforts. Pregnancy is the time to feel happy and take proper pregnancy diet. You can sometimes cook special meals for her that will be both nutritious and delicious for her to savor.
Be There When She Needs You Most
Be there with her for special appointments with the doctor like when you both can together see the baby on the ultrasound screen. Read books on parenting together if this is going to be your first child and if not then take care of older kids to let your wife get rest. One of the most important things to do is compliment her on how she looks and take her out for special dinners and romantic outings.