Just as any relationship is very fulfilling and cherishable similarly break ups are the most painful and hardest thing a couple has to undergo in case something goes wrong. It may give rise to trauma and pain but also provides ample opportunities to move on in life.
However one must know the best possible way to approach the topic when one realises that it is all over. Here are some points for you to remember if you have similar experiences.
Be Thinking and Rational:
Before approaching your partner think about the break up twice. Be absolutely sure there is nothing left in this relationship and it is better for you and also the partner to go separate ways. After you have made up your mind do not delay the inevitable. It will make it more difficult and painful. You cannot live with it.
The Duty is Yours:
Remember always that it is always your duty to approach the topic. Do not go for friends or known persons to intervene or act as your messenger. It may complicate the process leading to misunderstanding. Always fix an appointment at a private place where you can have a free chat without interruption. Listen to her arguments and also put forward yours. Be rational and not hasty. It may undo everything.
Be Firm and Positive:
Be firm and positive. Do not let your partner convince you about the sustainability of the relationship. Also never ever break up during a heated argument. Allow the partner the closure he or she wants. Be tactful and not brutal. Also make her feel comfortable and also remind her or him that you will never forget the positives in the character and it is only because of the incompatibility that you need a break up.
Break up tactics vary from person to person but there are certain things that remain unchanged like the points discussed above.