So let’s have a close look at men’s way of thinking and taking things in life and relationships.
Men are often thought to be insensitive because they don’t show their emotions or seem indifferent in certain situations. But the fact is that men too are sensitive towards everything just as women are. They too get hurt, feel pain and even shed tears. Though, they may not cry in front of you because that is often taken as unmanly. But the fact is that men of every age do cry.
Men are often found to be missing from social events, family functions and gatherings. That may upset their partners or family members, but they are mostly absent from such events because they are working long or extra hours at their office so that they can provide the best to their family.
Women often tag their partners to be unromantic and insensitive. But it is not so. It’s just that they do not understand what you mean by romance. Their perception of romance is quite different than yours. So, better try to tell your darling what you expect as romance from him.
You must understand that every man needs his own space and freedom. He wants to spend time alone or with his friends. It is absolutely important for him for a healthy living.
If you want to discuss a problem with your man and he doesn’t seem to respond properly or seems to avoid it, then you would certainly take it otherwise. Whereas, what he is asking from you is a little time so that he can think about the matter himself first before he sits with you to get that discussion done. And if he is tells you about his problem that’s because he expects you to come up with a solution for it.
And, there’s a little child in every man who wants to watch his favorite sports and spend time playing video games. You should understand this and let him enjoy his time instead of making him grumble for keeping him busy with some other work like shopping etc.
Lastly, men do care only they don’t show it often or their way of expressing it is a little different.