their mood swings and the paranoia of making sure they do not cross the line. Dealing with teens also comes with a small amount of trust you need to put on them before jumping into conclusions at every steps which can be very annoying for your children and will stop listening to you entirely.
Get used to what they like – It’s a wrong thing to force your likes and dislikes on your children. Something you dislike not necessarily be a bad thing. Try to be tolerant regarding their likes and dislikes and get along as much as possible.
Understand their outbursts – Teenage is the most turbulent period when their mind is still extremely unstable, especially in the early years and more likely to have more than occasional emotional outbursts.
Do know that the reason for emotional outbursts is more than just a change in environment and responsibility in school. There are several hormonal changes in the body that adds to the mood swings and irritation.
Try and understand this and make sure you give them enough space to solve things on their own. Let them know that you are always there to help them with their problems instead of taking the outbursts and talking back personally.
Educate them about drug abuse and sex – This is an important role of parents to educate your children against drug abuse, violence and sex at an early teenage stage when they are still partially under your control.
??Understand their pressure – Life as a teenager is not easy. There are a million problems they have to deal with be it school, socializing, fitting-in or making friends. So the next time you see them particularly angry or lash out at you, try to have them open up to you and help them with whatever that is making them upset and work out the problem together.
Be strict when you have to – You don’t have to adjust to practically everything. It’s alright if you put up some restrictions on them. But just so as to make sure they understand the importance of doing so, explain them why you expect them to follow the rules.At last, relax and allow them to be themselves and let them learn and understand things on their own.