As the name suggests, Oppositional Defiant Disorder or also known as Conduct Disorder where children have an excessively rude and arrogant behavior where they expect everything to go their way and when it doesn’t they decide to put all the blame on others.
This is more of an informal explanation but children suffering from ODD generally express a very unacceptably negative and aggressive behavior. This disorder, as generally seen, is more common among boys than girls and can be seen in children as young as 3 or 4 years old.
Children suffering from this disorder have a serious behavioral issues where they can be seen as extremely arrogant and trying to defy the rules or simply anything that is told to them. This might seem like a general problem in all children but when this seems to be more in your child compared to what children usually go through, you know that they have an ODD.
As the name suggests, ODD children simply try to go against whatever you tell them, even though their reasoning is illogical or sometimes, they have no reason to go against you at all, but they still can’t bring themselves to do what you tell them to do.
They are usually angry with everything or are easily agitated, throw a lot of tantrums and argue all the time or at least most of the times. The best treatment for a child with ODD is to have them go through a good counseling by a good psychologist or a psychiatrist.
Since children suffering from ODD also have a considerable amount of learning disability, it’s best to have them go through specific tests designed to determine this disability which will help them get special assistance in learning in school.
Sometimes, all you need is to have a positive environment in the family to fix the disorder. Since this has nothing to do with chemicals or hormones in the body but simply a mental disorder, as long as the person is surrounded by positive and cheerful people, his anger and aggressiveness will come down a notch. So make sure the environment at home is as lively and fun as possible. Try not bickering and fighting in front of the child as much as possible.