World is a terrible place, and you do feel good when you admit that. But why do you admit this fact? Is it because you think that people are not friendly towards you or the world has not given you a better opportunity? Does life seem to be a struggle for you?
Remember – the secret of being happy is to stop feeling sorry for yourself. Self-pity is the worst kind of disease that you can have. It eats you away slowly. So if you want to be happy and healthy, stop putting yourself down.
People often face so much struggle or even losses in their lives that they have no other option but to blame fate. The reason they do this is because in life, they feel that fate was unfair to them while others got the opportunity that they deserved. They maybe right to some extent, but that does not mean that they should blame themselves.
If you continue to have self-pity, slowly you will lose all hope for working towards a better future. All you need to do is to tell yourself that you can do a job right, instead of thinking negatively. This will give you confidence and also a smile on your face. Most of the health problems occur because you tend to pity yourself.
The worst can be depression or even mood swings. Under these circumstances, you can even lose a lot of opportunities that come your way. Life is tough, as we all know. But you have to fight it out like many do and stop taking the blame for everything. Be a fighter and the first step you can start is by not feeling sorry for yourself.
Life treats everybody the same – it is no different for the rich or the poor. Opportunities will come and go. It is only the matter of taking the plunge and be optimistic. Sulking over a small loss of opportunity may result in the loss of a great one. Therefore, face the challenges that life has to offer and stop feeling sorry for yourself.