Is He Serious About You?

Ok, let’s say you’ve been seeing each other for quite some time now, and you may even have slept with him a few times.

But even after sharing so much and spending so much time together you may still not be sure whether you can call him your boyfriend.

That’s one dilemma that most new found love relationships face. You like him, you are with him but you’re still not sure about how and where your relationship is going.

If you want to find out whether the guy you are with is in for a long term relationship, then you’d better not rush to get him to commit. Don’t push things, and let him take his time because men are basically nervous about making commitments in love relationships. With that said, let’s try and take a look at what other signs you should be looking forward to, to confirm whether this guy is ready to commit or not.

Look for these

•    If the guy is open to meeting you in public places and does not hesitate to introduce you to his friends and relatives as his girlfriend, then it’s quite sure that he takes you and the relationship with you quite seriously. For instance, if he says that the two of you are just hanging out, then he’s definitely not sure about going any further with this relationship.

•    Watch out how he interacts and poses in front of other women, if he’s trying to pretend that he’s available then you’d rather ditch this guy before he ditches you.

•    If he talks about you with his family and friends, and tries to get you introduced into his close circle of friends and family, then that’s some good news coming your way.

•    A guy who is ready to commit with you, will not find it difficult to talk casually about his past relationships with you.

•    He is considerate about your likes and dislikes, and tries avoiding things that agitate or bother you.

•    And lastly, he’s willing to know more about you and wants to tell you more about himself.

You can easily stick around with a guy, who shows these above mentioned signs, because even if he doesn’t say it now he will ultimately propose to you someday.