How To Deal With A Breakup

Deal With A Breakup

 Deal With A Breakup It becomes very difficult for most people to deal with a breakup. Everybody has their own way of dealing with a breakup. Some tend to confine themselves from the outside world, some turn aggressive and few others move on. Moving on can definitely be hard for many people.

But there is no point thinking about something that is over again and again. You have to understand that if you did not break up now, then your relationship might have ended some other time. Sooner or later your relationship would have ended and so be happy that it is over now and you are relieved of all the nagging and fights. So recover from your break up and move on as early as possible. Here are few tips that will help you deal with your breakup.



Accept Your Breakup

Most people have a hard time accepting the fact that their relationship is over. This makes matters worse as you keep on thinking about your ex. The sooner you accept your breakup the better it is for you. Also remain firm with your decision and do not think through your decision again.



It might have taken something really serious to end your relationship and if you think through again them you might get stuck in a meaningless relationship again. Just believe that whatever happens is for the best and do not regret your decision. May be life has something else even better in store for you. So stop mourning and go in search for those better surprises.

Stop Blaming Yourself

Most people end up blamimng themselves for the breakup and keep feeling sad and unhappy about it. Such people tend to feel low of self-esteem, confidence etc. Such people also end up thinking that they are not good enough and they might die single! You cannot let yourself think like this. By bringing such negative thoughts in your mind you are making matters worse. So if you are blaming yourself for your breakup then stop doing that right away. Have a positive outlook towards life. Make yourself believe that you deserve something better and may be your ex was not good enough for you. Try to stay optimistic and hope for the best of things to happen.



Avoid Confining Yourself

Most people tend to confine themselves from everybody including family and best friends. This is the worst thing to do after a breakup. Confining yourself in such a way can drive you to feelings of depression which can take the form of a very serious ailment. Nothing is worth your health and so prevent yourself from falling prey to such conditions. Make sure that you move on with your life as usual like nothing happened.

Give Yourself Space

It is very important to give yourself ample amount of time and space. Think through your breakup once and consider all the things that might have lead to the breakup. Accept your flaws and promise yourself to correct those. Also think through all your ex’s bad qualities and that led to the breakup. Thinking through your ex’s flaws will only make you happy that you are not in a relationship with him/her anymore.

Take your time before you think of getting involved in a serious relationship again. Do not say good bye to the dating world. If you find someone nice, then do go out on a date but do not make any serious commitments soon. Take your time and decide what you expect out of a relationship and only then get involved in another relationship so that you do not have to go through a breakup again.

Share Your Feelings

Soon after you breakup confront a friend or a family member and share your feelings with them. They will surely understand what you are going through and empathize with you. Some people do not share such things with anybody and keeps such bad things and feelings to themselves. Such people might have a hard time recovering from their breakup. Sharing your feelings will make you feel good and you will be able to get over your breakup in no time.

Have Fun With Your Friends

Finish off your mourning phase fast and go out with your gang of best friends. When you are in a relationship you are so much into your partner that you forget your family and best buddies. A post breakup phase is the best time to bond with your best friends and family again. Party hard with your buddies and do all the things you like. This will make you realize there is so much more to life than you thought. Also find sometime to spend some good time with your family during this phase. You will surely feel a lot better after doing such things.

Pamper Yourself

You have pampered your ex enough and now it is your turn. Find some quality time for yourself and do all your favorite activities that you could not do with your ex. Also prepare yourself for the dating world by getting a new makeover, a new hairstyle etc. Also make some changes in your wardrobe to feel extra special. Also work your way to fitness by working out to enhance your looks. Once you are done doing these things, flaunt yourself in front of your ex and make him/her regret for what they have lost. This could be your little pay back if you had a bad breakup.

You cannot expect to find your dream-girl or dream-boy in everybody you date. So do not expect your love stories to end up happily all the time. Instead of mourning over a breakup, learn to take it as a lesson. Give few relationships a shot and you will surely find the person you are meant to be with someday. Be patient and keep looking for the perfect match for you. Learn to deal with a breakup with a sane state of mind and a positive approach. Follow these tips and you will be able to deal with a breakup without feeling too bad.



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