Rejection is one of the toughest phase you have to go through in a relationship. But at some point, you have to let it go and move on. Yes, it’s easier said than done, especially in the beginning when you begin to think that you can never love another person the same way anymore.
You have to remember that things do change with time. And with good, positive people around you, your heart can heal. It’s definitely not something irreversible. But there are certain things you can do to initialize this healing.
One of the most important things you need to realize before anything is that the pain you are going through is not forever. It is going to end some day. You just need to give yourself some time to wait for the new change to occur. You don’t need to wait either. Go out and start fresh. Make new friends, have new hobbies, socialize with new people. This will give you strength to move on.
Try spending time around people who really love you. This acts as a morale booster that gives you the confidence that there are people out there who love you and care about you. This also in turn gives you the confidence to try out a new relationship and slowly forget the old ones.
Take it as an opportunity to learn what went wrong and fix it. This way you can make sure that your next relationship can be better. But this does not mean you need to change yourself. You don’t want someone to like you for what you are not. But apart from that, there’s always a room to learn and grow.
But then again, it is not you always, who is to blame. If you are rejected, the reason may not be always you. There can be innumerable reasons why your partner left you. So remember not to take it personally and ruin your present life over it. Always see the brighter side of the problem. If you couldn’t keep this relationship, it only means that there is something better waiting for you out there.