Don’t Confuse Sexual Dissatisfaction With Sexual Dysfunction
August 22, 2009
There can be numerous reasons why a woman may be experiencing sexual dysfunction. However when you deeply analyze the situation you may find that most of these women are not suffering from sexual dysfunction rather they are sexually dissatisfied, because of which sex fails to excite them.
Besides certain medical conditions which may lead to a drop in a woman’s sexual desires, the other things that take a toll on her sexual life are work fatigue, being over occupied with children or household chores, experiencing emotional problems and being on antidepressants on such a strong medication.
Here are some important factors which influence a woman’s sexual desire.
A negative body image
Self consciousness is one of the main reasons, which makes a woman disinterested in sexual activities. A negative body image, where she constantly keeps thinking that she is fat, ugly or shapeless, makes a woman hesitant to show off her body even to her partner. She feels too ashamed to undress in front of her partner, because most of the time she’s trying to compare herself with the perfect bodied actresses and models, she keeps watching on TV or in magazines.
Sexually repressed
This is another significant reason why most women remain sexually dissatisfied. In most of the cultures across the world, a man has the liberty to talk about sex while if a woman begins talking openly about sex she is considered to be a slut. Thus when a woman is unable to express and talk about her sexual desires and the things that excite her, she can lose interest in sex.
The man’s pleasure comes first
In most relationships, it is the man’s pleasure which comes first, and a woman has to focus completely on how to leave her man satisfied. Now when it comes to the woman’s sexual satisfaction, it doesn’t figure anywhere and slowly the woman begins losing interest in sex.
Even in the present day society, it is the male sexuality that stays in focus, while a woman’s desires and her sexual fantasies are something that must remain confined to her mind. So over the course of time sex becomes an obligation for the woman instead of a pleasure, thus giving way to sexual dissatisfaction.
In most cases sexual dysfunction in female is merely sexual dissatisfaction and thus making some changes in the sexual activities may be more fruitful than jumping in for some drugs.
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