http://www.gracenglamour.com/does-he-prefer-watching-porn-over-having-sex/ Fashion, Hair Care, Hair Styles, Beauty Tips, Glamour & Love, Pregnancy & Parenting at Grace n Glamour.com Tue, 04 Jan 2011 01:20:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.gracenglamour.com/does-he-prefer-watching-porn-over-having-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-148 a reader Mon, 12 Oct 2009 02:28:05 +0000 http://www.gracenglamour.com/?p=7897#comment-148 well... i really think it's time for westerners to understand that their "faster, more, bigger, better" culture has contaminated their approach to sex as well. i think it's lame reasoning to say men like porn because it provides fast relief and IT'S OK that it's like that. it's NOT ok. it's sheer stupidity to waste the short moments we have in this life gliding over the surface of life without daring to plunge into it and make some real effort for the pleasure we get out of it. porn? sure, convenient, easy access, perfect for the low-IQ comfort-seeking people out there. it's not even a reality-vs.-fantasy argument, since i don't believe that reality has any privilage to fantasy; it's a whole different argument: people are either fine with numbing themselves to the point that passively jerking off seems better to them than getting involved with another human-being, or they're not fine with this. If they belong to the first group, it only takes someone who is AS numb to be able to get along with them, and if that someone is not as numb, he/she would have a problem. i don't see any point here to teach women to GET ALONG with their men's emotional numbness just to keep the guy around. this is typical "politically correct" western approach to life: "just get along with it". i would have written an article about how women can be annoyed at their guy's porn addiction without fear of being abandoned, instead. that'll serve a better purpose. well… i really think it’s time for westerners to understand that their “faster, more, bigger, better” culture has contaminated their approach to sex as well. i think it’s lame reasoning to say men like porn because it provides fast relief and IT’S OK that it’s like that. it’s NOT ok. it’s sheer stupidity to waste the short moments we have in this life gliding over the surface of life without daring to plunge into it and make some real effort for the pleasure we get out of it. porn? sure, convenient, easy access, perfect for the low-IQ comfort-seeking people out there. it’s not even a reality-vs.-fantasy argument, since i don’t believe that reality has any privilage to fantasy; it’s a whole different argument: people are either fine with numbing themselves to the point that passively jerking off seems better to them than getting involved with another human-being, or they’re not fine with this. If they belong to the first group, it only takes someone who is AS numb to be able to get along with them, and if that someone is not as numb, he/she would have a problem. i don’t see any point here to teach women to GET ALONG with their men’s emotional numbness just to keep the guy around. this is typical “politically correct” western approach to life: “just get along with it”. i would have written an article about how women can be annoyed at their guy’s porn addiction without fear of being abandoned, instead. that’ll serve a better purpose.

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