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Does He Prefer Watching Porn Over Having Sex

By on September 8, 2009

Watching-PornIt can be quite depressing to discover that your man is more interested in watching porn on his computer rather than having real sex with you. You may be depressed and utterly pissed off, and you may even be contemplating getting into a major ruckus over this matter with him.

But whatever you feel like doing, we suggest you hold your horses for the time being, because giving him a knee jerk reaction may just worsen up the whole scenario.

In most cases the problem is fixable, except in situations where he’s become psychologically affected because of watching porn, provided your approach is right. Here’s how you can get your sex life back on track.

Talk it out

When we say talk it out it means discuss the whole thing in a very light-hearted tone without succumbing to lethal arguments. Just let him know that you were not spying on him and discovered this accidentally when you checked on the history pages of the browser.

And even for the rest of the discussion keep your tone jovial and not judgmental.  The whole motive behind talking about it is to let him know that you’re aware of what he’s been doing and not to get into some unnecessary argument.

Try some sizzling sex

The reason most men love to watch porn is because it’s naughty, different from the usual and quick. So the next time you’re able to get him to have sex with you, let him have an altogether new experience like trying a new position, talking dirty or maybe just adding a theme to your sex session. Given him some visual delight, because that’s what excites men more than anything.

Don’t ask for it, initiate it

As we’ve already mentioned visuals work a long way to make a man excited, so the next time you want to have sex just express your desire visually rather than verbally. Start stripping or dance around naked, or do something of this sort so as to let him know that you’re willing for sex.

How about some quickies?

Watching porn on the internet is a quick way to gratify your sexual desires, because one doesn’t have to waste time on foreplay and all that stuff that usually precedes sex. So while you indulge in the regular long stretched sex sessions, do let him enjoy the pleasure of a quickie every now and then so that even if he wants some quick sex he feels comfortable to approach you instead of walking over to the computer.

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    well… i really think it’s time for westerners to understand that their “faster, more, bigger, better” culture has contaminated their approach to sex as well. i think it’s lame reasoning to say men like porn because it provides fast relief and IT’S OK that it’s like that. it’s NOT ok. it’s sheer stupidity to waste the short moments we have in this life gliding over the surface of life without daring to plunge into it and make some real effort for the pleasure we get out of it. porn? sure, convenient, easy access, perfect for the low-IQ comfort-seeking people out there. it’s not even a reality-vs.-fantasy argument, since i don’t believe that reality has any privilage to fantasy; it’s a whole different argument: people are either fine with numbing themselves to the point that passively jerking off seems better to them than getting involved with another human-being, or they’re not fine with this. If they belong to the first group, it only takes someone who is AS numb to be able to get along with them, and if that someone is not as numb, he/she would have a problem. i don’t see any point here to teach women to GET ALONG with their men’s emotional numbness just to keep the guy around. this is typical “politically correct” western approach to life: “just get along with it”. i would have written an article about how women can be annoyed at their guy’s porn addiction without fear of being abandoned, instead. that’ll serve a better purpose.