Does He Prefer Watching Porn Over Having Sex
It can be quite depressing to discover that your man is more interested in watching porn on his computer rather than having real sex with you. You may be depressed and utterly pissed off, and you may even be contemplating getting into a major ruckus over this matter with him.
But whatever you feel like doing, we suggest you hold your horses for the time being, because giving him a knee jerk reaction may just worsen up the whole scenario.
In most cases the problem is fixable, except in situations where he’s become psychologically affected because of watching porn, provided your approach is right. Here’s how you can get your sex life back on track.
Talk it out
When we say talk it out it means discuss the whole thing in a very light-hearted tone without succumbing to lethal arguments. Just let him know that you were not spying on him and discovered this accidentally when you checked on the history pages of the browser.
And even for the rest of the discussion keep your tone jovial and not judgmental. The whole motive behind talking about it is to let him know that you’re aware of what he’s been doing and not to get into some unnecessary argument.
Try some sizzling sex
The reason most men love to watch porn is because it’s naughty, different from the usual and quick. So the next time you’re able to get him to have sex with you, let him have an altogether new experience like trying a new position, talking dirty or maybe just adding a theme to your sex session. Given him some visual delight, because that’s what excites men more than anything.
Don’t ask for it, initiate it
As we’ve already mentioned visuals work a long way to make a man excited, so the next time you want to have sex just express your desire visually rather than verbally. Start stripping or dance around naked, or do something of this sort so as to let him know that you’re willing for sex.
How about some quickies?
Watching porn on the internet is a quick way to gratify your sexual desires, because one doesn’t have to waste time on foreplay and all that stuff that usually precedes sex. So while you indulge in the regular long stretched sex sessions, do let him enjoy the pleasure of a quickie every now and then so that even if he wants some quick sex he feels comfortable to approach you instead of walking over to the computer.
