Ditch That Looser

If the world was really as perfect as you see it in the movies, you won’t have any problem finding the perfect partner for you. But then, that’s reel life and where we live is real life. No matter how carefully you hoof it, in finding the right partner, you could still land up with one who is a perfect loser and a perfect misfit. Here is a little insight into the worthless duds you could end up with, along with a little advice on what you should do further.

The abusive guy

If the guy you’re living with has a vicious temper and is inclined to take the abusive course, then you’re definitely in for some troubled times ahead. The starting is always peaceful and nice, but then slowly the mischievous sprite in him wakes up and from then begins the saga of abuses, which maybe physical or verbal.

The twist in his behavior will normally come around when your relationship is getting onto more serious levels and he is no longer able to hide his possessiveness and aggressiveness. Although it’s sad and unfortunate, but if you do land up with one such maniac you must step out of the relationship immediately. Even if he says he will never repeat the behavior don’t trust him because he will, and you don’t need to give this disgusting fellow another chance.

The self obsessed man

This stereotype doesn’t care for your opinion, there’s only one person who is good and worthy and that is him. He’s got too much of air about his merit, and you are just an object to gratify his needs. He’s got everything concerning him on his priority list, and your thinking, your desires and everything concerning you is secondary and petty.

He keeps himself perched on a higher level, and cannot let you share this level with him. Trying to get them to understand you or love you, genuinely, is an effort in vain and you’d rather be better off walking out on him.

The sudden Mr. Strange

This Mr. Strange is way too unpredictable, and cannot stay put it in one place or with one partner for too long a time. He’s actually a hopper, but the way he goes around is so tactical that he may leave you thinking that the break off was all because of your faults. He will maintain a strange distance, while the two of you are together, and may never share his feelings and problems with you. Again, you’d rather get out of the relationship while it’s still bearable.