Declining A Dating Offer From An Undesirable Man
The world we live in is not a perfect world, and obviously every guy asking you out on a date isn’t a perfect guy. So, you have to learn to make judicious choices about the man you want in your life, and may at times have to forget those social etiquettes which prevent you from saying things that may hurt other people.
Dating isn’t charity
There may be so many qualities about you that send men running after you. There’ll be all kinds of men, including duds, who may ask you out on a date. You too as a person have your own priorities and your likes and dislikes, and you simply cannot go on a date with someone just out of social courtesy. Declining somebody’s offer will definitely hurt that person, but still you must do it well in time, to avoid getting into trouble.
Be crisp and clear
And when it comes to declining dating offers, you need to be crisp and clear. Using a rounded language may not pass on the right meaning, and the guy might that maybe you’re not in a mood right now and may come back to you again with the same offer. It’s difficult to know what kind of a guy he is, because you’ve not really spend any time with him. So, using words which can be interpreted differently should be completely avoided. There are all sorts of men in the world, there are guys who can take the hint and there are those who need to be told explicitly, and this is one fact you must always remember.
A polite way to say no
Most women find themselves in a dilemma when it comes to saying no for a dating proposal. Sit down to compose a well framed line to express your unwillingness. Begin by talking something flattering about the guy, but be genuine about whatever you are praising in him. This opening line will calm him down, and then he is ready to take the blow. Finally end it again with some sweet words, before you leave.
