Dealing With Being In Love With Your Best Friend
Love is not a feeling that you can control or direct towards the person you want to love. It’s a feeling that is beyond your control which is what makes it a magical experience. Well, it’s only magical when it happens with the person you have no issues with and what’s more.
They love you back! But there are situations when you end up falling for a person you have a hard to time accepting. The hardest part of this is to accept that you really do love that person. You probably feel that you are cheating on your relationship with that person as friends with feelings that are definitely more than just friendship for them.
You have to realize that as long as you haven’t done it deliberately, whatever that has happened is not your fault and there’s no need to feel guilty or ashamed about it. There’s no need to try and fall out of love with them either.
Take your time to get used to the fact that you really love your friend, which is after making sure that it really is the real deal. Think of the consequences of getting into a relationship with them. Can you really think of a future for your relationship? If you are not planning for a long-lasting one, then you have to try your hardest to put that feeling aside and maintain your friendship.
But if you are all set to confess, make sure you have at least some idea that your friend likes you too. Try and test it a couple of times. The result might be negative even when your friend likes you but if you feel that your friend deserves to know how you feel, then you can go ahead without the fear of being rejected.
Remember when you are not supposed to confess. You are not supposed to confess when your friend is already in another relationship and is happy. You are not allowed to confess when your friend is already going through a lot of pressure like a big exam coming ahead and doesn’t want to think about anything else.
You are also not allowed confess if she’s already in a lot of trouble and can’t afford to take any more than that. It’s not wrong to love your own best friend but think about it well enough before confessing.
