Top

       alt text alt text alt text alt text alt text alt text alt text alt text alt text alt text alt text alt text alt text

Being A Single Mom Is Challenging

October 14, 2009




mom2Being a single mom isn’t easy, there are lots of children and household related responsibilities and duties that you need to take care of, besides ensuring your career stays on the right path so you can afford all the living expenses.

Here are some things that will help you in managing the parenting challenges, of being a single mom, more effectively.

Reach out for help

Remember that after separation there is just one person missing and that’s your partner, and the rest of all who can extend their support, like your friends, your relatives and your office peers are all still there. Many of them may be willing to extend support to you, and you mustn’t feel shy or hesitant to accept what ever little help they can offer.

And most importantly don’t let your ego prevent you from taking help from your close ones. In fact when you need help, you can even go ahead and ask your close pals and relatives for help, instead of waiting for them to extend it to you on their own. You may need emotional support, help with your kids or financial support, and while its fine to take help from others on the emotional and children’s front, avoid borrowing money as far as possible.

Make new family traditions

When you were together, your partner must have participated actively in all family affairs like birthdays, weekend breaks, festivals and children’s school and sports activities. But after the separation, you will have to fill in the emptiness that the children would feel because of their father not being around.

Think about changing the way you used to celebrate family occasions, and infuse in some creative and enticing activities so that the children don’t get enough time to think about their father. As is usually seen, fathers are the ones who take more interest in children’s sports activities, but now since you are a single mom you will need to begin taking interest in your children’s sports and recreation activities.


Comments

Got something to say? Join the conversation and leave a comment below.
and oh, if you want a pic to show with your comment, go get a gravatar!





Recent Articles


Postpartum Thyroiditis: Are You At A Risk
Proper functioning of thyroid is very essential for a woman’s reproductive system, right from puberty through menopause.


Is Cramping Normal During The First Trimester
It’s fairly common to experience some amount of discomfort, pain and cramping all through the pregnancy


Can A Teenager Get Pregnant Before The Onset of Menstrual Cycle
Whether we want to or not, we have to accept it that today’s teenagers rush in for sex way to early.


Is Spotting and Bleeding Normal During The Second Trimester of Pregnancy
Most pregnant women experience occasional bleeding or spotting when they are still in their first trimester


Yeast Infections During Pregnancy
Pregnancy is one time, when you may experience certain problems you may never have had earlier and vaginal yeast infection


What's More today?

alt text Symptoms of Hypothyroidism and Hyperthyroidism

Most people have a lot of doubts surrounding thyroid problems, especially in terms of its two different... 

alt text 5 Foods for a Healthy Heart

It’s no secret that to have a healthy heart you must eat well. So here we have a list of 5 heart healthy... 

alt text Is Coffee Good for Health

Till so far most of us were told that drinking coffee is damaging for the health, however we must thank... 

alt text Cystic Acne: The Most Troublesome Acne Type

Nearly every teenager experiences the problem of acne to some extent, and while in most cases the problem... 

alt text Abortion Can Cause Fertility Problems in Future

There has been a lot of rhetoric propaganda surrounding the issue of abortion. There are religious and... 

alt text How Effective is Tubal Ligation for Birth Control

Tubal ligation or surgical sterilization is a permanent birth control measure which involves the tying... 

alt text Can A Teenager Get Pregnant Before The Onset of Menstrual Cycle

Whether we want to or not, we have to accept it that today’s teenagers rush in for sex way to early.... 

alt text Is Spotting and Bleeding Normal During The Second Trimester of Pregnancy

Most pregnant women experience occasional bleeding or spotting when they are still in their first trimester,... 

alt text High Cholesterol Can Lead to Sexual Dysfunction

The secret to a rocking sex life lies in the heart. Of course emotional bonding is important for a gratifying... 

alt text What Are Your Risks of Getting a Heart Problem

Heart problems have become so increasingly common that there is nearly one heart patient in every other... 

alt text Yeast Infections During Pregnancy

Pregnancy is one time, when you may experience certain problems you may never have had earlier, and vaginal... 

alt text Exercising During The First Trimester of Your Pregnancy

Whenever a woman becomes pregnant she is in a state of dilemma as to what all she must do and what all... 

alt text Boredom- The Silent Killer

It may have been a common issue with lot of people in childhood that when they felt bored and conveyed... 

alt text Putting A Toddler To Sleep – A Daunting Task

Issues with proper sleeping are quite common in developing toddlers. The problems are diverse from sleeping... 

alt text Food Tantrums In Children

More than eighty percent of parents who have growing kids have to fight a grave battle while feeding... 

Bottom